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Assault as a result of sexual matters, or confusion within the framework of customs and traditions, some people refrain from disclosing to their children about the details of sexual matters, and evading questions with answers wrong, distorting the concept of sex when the child later in life, what led in some cases, homosexuality, or understanding incomplete and distorted by sex as reported by the specialists.

In the absence of sexual education curricula in schools, parents went to the White is the starting point for teaching sex education, regardless of the way in which the parents in the upbringing of their children sexually.
Regular education is the foundation .. There is no need to address the sexual issues
Syria News met with some parents, to determine the method of sexual education of their children, and how to treat them with embarrassing questions as through other, "said Abu Wassim, 57, father of two, said" I have never during my upbringing for my children to any positions of sensitive or embarrassing questions about sex, which puts eastern Our traditions halo around the head of the family to prevent children from addressing these topics with their parents. "
Abizaid and Abu SIM "What matters in this regard is educating children were correct in all respects, no need to revisit the themes of nationality, if the correct and proper education of children will learn the right things without abnormalities, regardless of who or how they got the information because the basis of a solid education. "
For his part, Abu Nour, 53, a father of three girls, he said that "Since all my children, girls, if so, without asking questions of nationality to, and I believe that children learn these things from each other, and I think these things do not unthinkable boys before puberty."
He added that "the mother's job is the largest in these matters because the mother always closer to the children and the responsibility to direct them, especially girls, should be taught how to maintain themselves and they carry the family honor."
In turn, these things are not at Abu Sulaiman, 52, a father of four young people no problem, and said that "to deal with young people, male children is much easier than girls, for instance at the age of the father to deal with them Kosedkaih, and can connect to them all the information context of sexual conversations, and without them the question. "
As for the childhood curiosity and questions, "said Abu Suleiman" These questions are intimidating to some parents with as normal, but some parents restrict the habits worn, and the wrong understanding of religion prevents them to answer, leading to many problems in the child's personality, the first result of repression, perversion ".
My daughters best answer their questions of nationality, in order to avoid their use of non -
Meanwhile El "or sang" mother of four daughters, said: "I try not to talk in detail with my daughters about this subject, and in turn I took care of Ptoeithn about the importance of maintaining themselves and the presence of areas of the body must be protected and take care of it and the reason is the existence of a barrier between parents and children in these matters" .
Explained or sang "my daughters best answer all the questions they want answered in terms of nationality, rather than resorting to their friends and get the wrong information."
The agency that "we should be talking about sex with girls in the age of puberty, because the girl is mature and able to absorb these topics, with the caveat that no shyness in science, and the body consists of several members should know and understand its functions."
The mother sang to that, in this way encouraged girls to ask questions that have notified the Bbahin their mother, what guarantees the quality of information people trust their daughters as inaccurate and distorted.
School curricula, limited to sexual materials science and religion, the arts section almost sunset
For more information on the subject in terms of education, met with Syria News Ibrahim Ismail, a director of a school, where he said that "sexual issues are not addressed in the curricula of educational books with the exception of religion and science, and to clarify the religious aspects of sex begins in the seventh grade in the class and become atheist ten scientific to the baccalaureate study of the human body in all its divisions, and remain so absent students about the arts section. "
Ismail added that "there is the importance of breaking the barrier of shame to the students and encourage them to inquire about all that is needed to clarify, is due to shame with a professor in the classroom atmosphere should respect towards him, the fact that the oriental society viewed such matters as shameful, and that students lose this shame once they are out of the door of the school. "
And the role of parents in sex education, Ismail said "home is a cornerstone in the education of the child from all aspects including citizenship as the privacy afforded to a boy with his parents does not exist in the student's school as a result of a large number of his colleagues, who listen to it if it is put to question sexual particular. "
Ismail pointed out that "so parents can use the special relationship with their children, guiding them towards the reality of the relationship of sexual and related matters and that starts to move away from a way to intimidate the child and prevent him from question, as a result may be a deviation in behavior or distort the reality of sexual relations in the mind of the boy reflected on his behavior toward the girls. "
Customs and traditions of our societies, to prevent parents from their children frankly about sexual matters
And met with Syria News Nour Makarem psychological expert, who said that "closed societies and involving the same following the customs and traditions, to prevent parents from speaking clearly in sexual matters, and in turn that the answer to avoid embarrassing the children's questions, you may pay children to go to the wrong destinations, an application of knowledge in these things. "
And the views of children to seek knowledge of nationality, Makarem said "often leaves the child in the event of failure to respond to questions that are inside a large pressing, to children from age or a little larger, and sometimes children go to senior people close to them but they are not reliable, especially in the street, leads to learning things distorted or taking the wrong idea about sex, and sometimes lead to anomalies in old age. "
The noble that they "must seize the opportunity in the event of the child by asking questions of the nationality of the parents, and answer a simplified explanation, without naming names and explain the mechanism in full, and taking into account the age of the small and complete lack of understanding of these matters, in this case the child will be receptive to what is said, saturation and desire knowledge."

 

Hazem Awad - Syria News Youth

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